Mary Sego

Mary Gloria Sego (Anderson), age 83, passed away peacefully on August 29, 2025, in Lewiston, Idaho. Born on March 28, 1942, in North Carolina, Mary lived a life defined by love, resilience, and unwavering devotion to her family and community.

Throughout her life, Mary poured her heart into caring for others—most notably through her work in food service. She spent several years in Alaska managing logging camp kitchens, where she handled everything from budgeting and ordering supplies to managing staff and preparing hearty meals that brought comfort to hardworking crews. Her dedication didn't stop there; she later managed food services in local residential facilities, where she was especially known for baking holiday pies from scratch—an act that brought joy to many during special times of the year.

Mary's passion for cooking was more than a profession—it was an expression of her love. Feeding others was how she showed care and connection. Her kitchen was a place of warmth and welcome, where family and friends gathered not just for meals but for memories.

Mary is survived by a large and loving family who will carry forward her legacy of kindness and generosity. She is remembered by her son Steven Self (Brenda) of Sedro Woolley, WA; grandsons Zach Self of Burlington, WA, and Jake Self of Nampa, ID; great-grandsons Porter Self, Camden Bensen, Jett Self, Baker Self; great-granddaughters Lyla Self, Izalea "Izzy" Juarez, Zaelynn Self, Dawsyn Self, Brenna Self, BriEllen "Nani" Self; son Scott Self of Mt. Vernon; grandson Kristian Self; granddaughters Karlie Self; Melissa Lamont (Eric), great-grandson Matthew, great-grand daughter Aubry; granddaughter Monica Self (Tyler), great-grandson Jameson, great-granddaughter Ruby; and granddaughter Jhani Mae Self.

She is also lovingly remembered by brothers Robert Anderson (Cheri) of Sedro Woolley, WA; Ted Anderson (Marlene) of Arizona; John Anderson (Janine) of Clarkston, WA; sisters Alice Frizzell (Roy) of Burlington, WA; Gayle Ashback (Dave) of Anacortes, WA; Aunt Ann Steiner (Al) of Mt. Vernon, WA; Rhonda Johnson (sons Austin, Jarrett and Brandon), Johnny Johnson (son Eddie Lee and daughter Kaitlin); as well as numerous nieces and nephews.

Mary was preceded in death by her father and mother Charles and Sylvia Anderson; husband Ron Sego; son Edward Self; brothers Ray and Kenneth Anderson; sisters Margie Guffie, Rebecca "Becky" Mudgett, and Joanne Gardinier.

Her final years were filled with the same love she gave so freely throughout her life. The family extends heartfelt gratitude to those who supported Mary with compassion and care—especially John & Janine Anderson for their devoted care over the past two years. Special thanks also go to Robert Anderson, Doyle Guffie, Dale Guffie, Eileen Prince (Self), and Sheri Anderson for their enduring support.

Mary's guiding principle was simple yet profound: always help others regardless of the circumstances. In honor of her generous spirit and lifelong faithfulness to those around her, donations may be made to your local church—a gesture she would have deeply appreciated.

May Mary's memory bring comfort to all who knew her. Her legacy lives on in every meal shared with love and every act of kindness extended in her name. A Celebration of Life will be held on October 18, 2025, at 12:00 PM at Lyman Church 31433 W Main Street.